Mother-of-one cheats on her husband with phone sex while they are quarantining in the same house

A mother-of-one has revealed that she is cheating on her husband of 12 years while they are quarantining together in the home where they both live with their daughter. 

The unnamed woman, who is based in the US, confessed that she has been having sexual affairs with different men that she meets on adultery website ashley madison for the past year – but when she had to go into lockdown because of the coronavirus pandemic, she began cheating digitally. 

In an interview with Cosmopolitan, the mom described her husband as ‘the absolute love of my life’, but said that she began looking elsewhere for sexual fulfillment after developing a taste for more aggressive forms of sex

Adultery in the time of coronavirus: An unnamed woman has revealed that she is cheating on her husband of 12 years by having phone sex with other men while they are quarantined

She shared her newfound desires with her husband, who was willing to try and give her what she needed in the bedroom. But much to her disappointment, she said he found it hard to change their bedtime behavior, and couldn’t ‘spank or choke the mother of his child the way she wanted him to’. 

Although they continued to make love one or two times a week, the woman admitted that she was not getting everything she needed from their sex life – so a year ago, she downloaded ashley madison, a website aimed at married people who are seeking affairs.  

‘And upon downloading, holy men,’ she told Cosmopolitan. ‘I was absolutely enthralled. I spent six weeks talking to more than 100 different suitors, literally. 

‘After the first month or so, I was able to narrow them down to my top ten based on physical attraction, consistency, affair goals, etc. 

‘We’d get coffee, meet for breakfast, at the park, whatever, just to get acquainted. Then the first affair happened in a booked hotel room.’

After that first time, the married mom continued to meet ‘so many hot men’, whom she would fulfill many sexual fantasies with, including trips to a sex club, and more aggressive sex

However, just as she had got into the swing of her sexual affairs, the coronavirus pandemic hit, forcing her to quarantine inside with her husband and their daughter – and prompting her to ‘take her sexual needs virtual’. 

‘I am used to meeting up with men whenever I want to,’ she confessed. ‘But since the global pandemic, I’ve had to take my sexual needs virtual: phone sex, video sex, sexting, and videos… sometimes when my husband is still in the house.’

The anonymous woman revealed that she is now talking to ‘at least three to five men throughout the day’, explaining that she conducts her digital affairs on all manner of online applications, from Kik to Google Hangouts. She usually messages them first, and then tries to arrange a time when they are both free to talk on the phone, or on FaceTime. 

And while the digital encounters might not be what she is used to, the mom said that they are still ‘a lot of fun’, admitting that she gets an added ‘thrill’ from knowing that her husband is in the house when she is speaking with the men.

‘Knowing the thrill that my husband is around and could catch me at any time makes it so much hotter,’ she said. 

Since the global pandemic, I’ve had to take my sexual needs virtual: phone sex, video sex… sometimes when my husband is still in the house

‘Being stuck at home certainly adds a new layer of challenges, but for some people, that makes the affair that much sexier.’ 

The woman did not specify whether or not her husband is aware of her affairs.  

And it’s not just her affairs that have taken a turn – the woman says that her physical relationship with her husband has also improved as a result of her adultery, explaining that she feels more ‘confident and satisfied’ which is noticeable when she has sex with her significant other. 

But that doesn’t mean she would consider sticking to digital dates in the future, with the woman admitting that she is already eager to get back out into the world so she can meet some of these men in person. 

As for anyone who might judge or criticize her chosen lifestyle, she hits back at the suggestion that she is a ‘monster’, insisting that she refused to risk feeling ‘unfulfilled’ in her life, when she knew exactly what steps she needed to take in order to achieve happiness. 

‘My affairs are about me, and only me — they have nothing to do with my husband,’ she said. ‘I love him, but maybe it’s unrealistic of me to expect him to be all the things I need in every facet of my life: emotionally, physically, mentally, etc. I need something more, and I know exactly how to get it—so I will.’

 

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